sweetlikeacherry:
stop the self doubt and just decide that you are sexy. and then you will be
I still see some of you in the tags with self doubt….saying this is easier said than done. stop putting any focus into how you’re being perceived by others and start focusing on how you’re perceiving yourself and treating yourself. when you know and believe that your sexy no body can say anything about you. whatever people say is about themselves. If you cling to a false center that depends on others, you’ll always be looking to what people are saying about you. you’ll always be following other people, trying to satisfy people, trying to be respectable, you’ll always attempt to decorate your ego. this is a loosing game. rather than being disturbed by what other’s say, you should start looking inside of yourself… whenever you are self-conscious you are showing that you are not conscious of the self at all. you don’t know who you are. if you had known, then there would have been no problem—you are not seeking opinions. then you are not worried what others say about you—it is irrelevant! it doesn’t matter! when you are self-conscious you are in trouble. when you are self-conscious you are really showing symptoms that you don’t know who you are. your very self-consciousness indicates that you have not come home to yourself yet. decide that you are sexy and you will be. I’m serious bitch
